The Hajj- A Personal Account

 One of the most important religious experiences and a requirements of the 5 Pillars of faith for Islamic followers is the Hajj (Pilgrimage to Mecca). All followers are expected to makes this pilgramage once in their life. Javeria's parents were able to take this journey to Mecca. She interviewed her parents and shared their life changing experience with us. 

Mrs. Jordan

Background: Islam is the second largest growing religion in the world. Islam was emerged on the Arabian Peninsula during the seventh century C.E.  It was introduced by the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), upon receiving revelations from Allah (God). Allah chose Muhammad (peace be upon him) to spread the message and word to the people of Saudi Arabia. Muslims are required to accomplish the 5 Pillars. One of them is going on the hajj pilgrimage, if physically and financially capable. Hajj is performed to commemorate Muhammad (peace be upon him)’s hajj, which was the first hajj performed. Last year, my parents completed their hajj. Not only were they affected by the experience, but me too. It left a big impact on me when they left and when they came back and told me all about it. I interviewed my parents about their experience, and we wanted to share it with you guys.

My Parents Hajj Experience:

What made you decide that it was the right year to go to Hajj?

We had been thinking about going to Hajj and thinking about it for about 4 years. However the timing was off. The biggest advantage to go last year was that our kids’ grandparents came to America for the first time and got our kids trained.

What were the reactions of people when you guys told everyone?

People were very excited and happy and congratulated us. Everyone was very happy, even the people at work were very happy. (Me: I was kind of envious that my parents got to go there.)

What kind of expectations did you have about going to Hajj?

When we were going there, there were several things…it is going to be very difficult to walk all around; there would be too many people there. We expected to do all the rituals, but most likely from a distance.

How did you prepare for Hajj?

We did research online. We took seminar classes, we studied several different books, and asked question to our friends who performed before us. They were very good guides and helpful for getting us prepared.

How did you spiritually get prepared for Hajj?

Dad: I started to think about it two or three months before…seriously I started thinking about it even before July. I did some research.

We stated praying more and making duas (supplication/wishes)…praying that we get visas and tickets done on time. We both made the intention that “Insha Allah (God-willing) we will perform Hajj, and made a connection with God. It was fortunate for us that he made us his guests there.

Was there any challenge you felt during your pilgrimage?

Well, we did not consider these as challenges, because they are part of Hajj. But it was a little different from what we thought. On the third day, we had to leave from Medina to Mecca. On the fourth day, we left late, and we got to Mecca and arrived at midnight. The next morning, we had to prepare, when we got there we had to live in a residence close to the Kaaba and instead we lived in a hotel in a different city. We had to take a taxi cab to the Kaaba.

How did you feel once you got there?

We had a lot of excitement and anxious. When we got there it was so surreal…we had to pinch ourselves. Spirituality was everywhere, and it was the best place on earth, especially for Muslims. We were very overwhelmed and were happy that we were his guests. We were very blessed to have his invitation.

Did you do anything special or see anything special?

We even got to touch the Kaaba…twice! It was the most amazing feeling, even words couldn’t describe it. You don’t see anything across the Kaaba, no planes, birds, animals. It is not allowed. We met many new people and became friends with them as well.

What was it like there? What was the weather like? Where did you stay at? What was the best part of it?

When we first got there, we went to Medina, and it is the city of the Prophet. We got there very late at night. The bus took us to the hotel from the airport. There were many people from around the world. It was fairly warm. We were looking forward to the Masjid-e-Nabawi. It was the mosque of the prophet. We were anxiously looking forward to it, but we saw minarets in the distance but it wasn’t very clear. When we got to the hotel, we changed our clothes and got prepared. Then we went to the masjid (mosque). Walking into the masjid was vey overwhelming. It was vey calm and vey peaceful. Our stay there was very nice and everyone there was very nice. It was very special.

(Dad): It reminded me that I had visited the masjid with my father. It was like a flashback in black and white. I was only 5 years old when I went there.

The best part about Hajj was everything, we couldn’t have asked for more. The most important thing was that we got an invitation from the Supreme. We got chosen out of so many people.

What rituals are performed there?

First you take a bath, and put on unstitched sheets to your body, Ihram. It’s a dress for males. Women can wear normal clothes.  Men have to wear white cloths. And then, you make the intention for Hajj. And then go towards Mecca. When you arrive at the Masjid-e- Haram, which means the “blessed masjid” in which the Kaaba is inside, the Kaaba is right in the middle. There are different doors. After you got inside the masjid, you make a special prayer. When you see the first sight of the Kaaba you make a supplication. Allah will accept the supplication. Then, we go towards the Kaaba. You go 7 times counterclockwise around the Kaaba, to circumambulate. This is called the Tawaaf. You pray two rakat (prescribed movements and words followed by Muslims while offering prayers to Allah) namaaz (praying). Then, you will Saai, which is running back and forth between the two mountains of Al-Safa and Al-Marwah. You run 7X between these two mountains. This is the commemoration of what Hazrat-Hajra (Hagar) Alai Salam (Peace be upon her). She ran between the two mountains looking for water for Prophet Ismail (Ishmael) peace be upon him. Left by Prophet Ibrahim (Abraham) peace be upon him. Then we went back to our hotel.  Then the next day, we went back and performed another circumambulation counterclockwise 7x and prayed two rakats of namaaz. Then we ran the two hills again. And then the next day, we went to the city of Mina, the “tent city”. That is when the actual Hajj starts. You stay in that tent city for about four days. We stayed in Mina, and then the next day, we went to the plains of Mount Arafat. In that place we make special prayers and special supplications. And it is our belief that that time is the best time for us to make supplications to Allah and he accepts our duas. We stay there until sunset. After sunset we leave Arafat and we leave to Muzdalifah. And then we spent the night under an open sky. With no tent, and you pray and collect pebbles. I think we collected 21 pebbles. And we prayed there and made special duas and supplications. And after the Fajr prayer (early Morning Prayer) the next day, we returned to Mina. In Mina, then we went to perform the ritualistic stoning of Satan. This is to commemorate Prophet Ibrahim’s (peace be upon him) stoning of Satan, when he was taking his son to get sacrificed. The Satan tried to stop him. And Prophet Ibrahim (peace be upon him) threw it (stones) at the Satan. We don’t see the Satan, but there are three stone pillars, Ramy al-Jamarat is what it’s called. The first one we stoned was the largest one. Then we came back to our camps, and then we did the sacrifice of a lamb or goats on our behalf by the trip organizers. It represents the prophet’s (PBUH) sacrifice of his son. But Allah quickly replaced his son with a lamb. Men would shave their heads and then we take off our ihram. And then you stay in the city of Mina fro two more days. We perform the Ramy again the next two days. But this time we throw seven pebbles at each of the three stone Satans. This is to stop Satan from distracting us from our tasks. After performing the Ramy on the third day, we went back to our hotel. And basically our Hajj is complete. We stayed in the hotel, and eventually got to stay in a residence near the Kaaba. We then performed two umrah (optional pilgrimage to Mecca) to pass time until our flight in the next days. Actually, Medina was more peaceful than Mecca.

How have things changed over time?

At first the Kaaba looked very small compared to everything else from far away. But once you get close you feel so small compared to it. But no matter, how tall the building are, the Kaaba in its own way is much taller.

How did you feel when you left?

We felt sad (laughs); we were also excited to see our children and parents. We were very relaxed and satisfied that our Hajj was complete.

How do you think this experience changed you?

The most important thing we learned is that everything that happens, whatever we plan to do, is not ever going to go according to our plans. If it is not good for us, Allah will not do it for us. God will make it possible for us. If something doesn’t go according to plan, it is happening for a reason. You may not even know why.

THANK YOU.

Questions to Ponder:

Why do you think Hajj is an important pillar of Islam?

Why do you think nothing flies or goes across the Kaaba?

About Me:

My name is Javeria Syed and I’m a sophomore. I love laughing and jokes, music, food, family, friends, and have fun. I really am devoted to Islam and I really have had a big impact religiously by my parents’ pilgrimage. Insha Allah( if God wills), my parents will take me and my sisters to complete umrah, a minor pilgrimage. I look forward to that day that I go to hajj, because it will the most spiritual experience for me. I chose this topic because I wanted to teach people about my religion. If you guys have any questions about Islam, I will be really happy to answer them as best as I can. Thanks to you